Written by Bret K.
Hello, my name is Bret and I have a traumatic brain injury. I acquired my injury when I was 20 years old. A traumatic brain injury happens when the brain is injured due to an outside force. Half of all traumatic brain injuries result from motor vehicle accidents. My injury is no exception.
Before my accident I was working full time at a machine shop. I loved playing baseball, and was even on my school's team. I was attending a community college and planning to become a police officer. I was very independent and had an active social life. I had even lived in another state with friends, but recently moved back home prior to my accident.
My accident occurred very early one morning, at about 4:30 a.m. I was driving one person to their house after a night of drinking with a group of friends. I was not wearing a seatbelt. I was ejected from the vehicle after it flipped multiple times. My friend was still inside, with his seatbelt on, which saved him from getting a traumatic brain injury. I wasn't as lucky. I was in a comatose state for a couple of months following the accident. When I awoke, I knew my parents, but everyone else was a stranger to me. The doctors told my parents that I was going to be a vegetable for the rest of my life. I am able to be here telling you my story because of the hard work and faith that my family and friends had in me. My injury occurred on the left side of my brain, leaving my right side of my body semi-paralyzed. I have little to no control of my right arm and right leg.
My life now is not a pot of gold, but is definitely worth more than any words can explain. I am able to work through Special Tree and even have more than one job title. I have a few friends that continue to visit and remain in contact with me, which I am very grateful for. I am still pretty independent. Although I currently live in a group home and require some staff assistance, I am planning to move to an apartment in the near future. I am improving everyday. I get to walk with a walker two times a week, it was very difficult at first, but I am not willing to give up. I am currently working on my social and communication skills with my peers and staff to be able to find a life partner and supportive friends.
Although partying may be fun, do not drink and drive. If you drink and drive the thing that happened to me could happen to you, or even worse you could die.